Family Trees That Talk - Interviewing Relatives

As a means of researching family trees,aged 70.
interviewing relatives can be a really enjoyableBack at about that time a water reservoir called
experience for both parties, BUT there are somethe Waranga Basin was being excavated and so
rules that need to be obeyed. As with anythingthere was a great influx of workers around the
worthwhile, genealogy does have guidelines thatarea.
must be followed if you are at all serious aboutTwo of the workers living in the tent city that
family history.sprung up were James Edwardsand William
5 Simple RulesSkinner. They were friends but Skinner got drunk
* Contact them first - DON'T just turn up on theirone night andattacked Edwards with a shovel. He
doorstep, cassette recorder in hand. Get theirdefended himself with a nearby axe and killed
permission to do the interview and be honestSkinner. Fearing the police would not believe it was
about why you would like to speak to them.self-defence, Edwards proceeded to cut up the
* Be careful not to offend them by askingbody, placed the parts in hessian bags andthrew
questions that maybe too personal or of a verythem into the basin. The parts were later found
sensitive nature. Some people will answer anyand an investigation ensued. All these details I got
question you throw at them whereas others willfrom a newspaper, The Rushworth Chronicleof
be more guarded. Obviously if you already have a1905.
close relationship with Uncle George, he will beGeorge BURLS and his son Alfred were rabbit
quite relaxed in talking to you. Aunty Madgetrapping, which was their occupation, when they
however, who you wouldn't know if you fell overwere approached by the culprit, Edwards, who
her, is not as likely to be so forthcoming in layingthey both knew from another job site where
out the laundry, clean orotherwise, of the family!they had previously worked together.
* It's important to have a list of questions ready.Edwards denied ever knowing them and said he
You may not ask them all or you may need towanted to buy some tobacco.
alter the focus of some during the interview, butHe did so then left. They were both called to give
you should have a list of core questions ready.evidence at the subsequent trial. End of story!
Why? Because this will ensure that you don'tThe above are the facts of the case. My
forget anything important and secondly it givesgrandmothers version was somewhat more
the impression that youactually know what youelaborate, granting my great-grandfather, who by
are doing. Dithering and looking up at the ceilingthe way only had one eye , with the tracking
every 5 minutes trying to remember what to askdown and apprehension of Edwards. But again,
next does not inspireconfidence and will likelyshemay have just been repeating what she had
make the interviewee uncomfortable.been told.
* DON'T outstay your welcome. You are the onlyHandy Interviewing Questions
one that can judge when that might be.Okay, so here are some sample questions to get
* Show your appreciation for their time by eitheryour family trees talking. These are in addition to
presenting them with a small gift or simply sayingthe mandatory ones such as names, dates of
those magic words, "thank you".birth,marriage death etc.
Verify Or Else1. Describe your childhood - relationship with
Family interviews are a fantastic way to fill in theparents, siblings.
gaps in your family trees, and will provide far2. The greatest joy of your childhood was .......?
more information than you could ever glean from3. As a child, what was your worst fear?
a marriage certificate. The quality and detail can4. What was your father's occupation and what
be extraordinary and enlightening , BUT don'twas the quality of your life like as a child?
accept everything Uncle George says as5. How would you describe your parents and or
beingentirely accurate. His "true story" may notgrandparents - physical characteristics and
be true at all.qualities?
THE FIRST RULE IN GENEALOGY IS VERIFY -6. What is the most pleasant memory you have
wherever possible. The truth can be stretched,of your parents and or grandparents?
twisted, bent and made to disappear altogether.7. What was the dumbest thing you ever did as a
Thatdoesn't mean Uncle George is lying, he maychild?
just be repeating what he wastold by someone8. What was your most memorable holiday?
else or may have forgotten the details over time.9. What was one thing that attracted you to your
My Storyspouse? Why?
Here is an example of just such a point from my10. What was the most difficult moment for you
own family history. It is very illustrative of theas a parent?
need, when researching family trees, for accurate11. What one thing would you change in your role
information.as a parent?
My great-grandfather George BURLS came out12. What would you like your children to most
from England and settled in rural Victoria, Australia.remember about you?
My grandmother, his youngest daughter, always13. What was your greatest fear as a parent?
saidthat he was a detective and that he solved a14. What activities do you enjoy?
murder investigation in a nearby town. Well, that15. What do you find really annoying in other
was all I had to go on. Firstly if THERE was apeoples actions or characteristics?
murder the localnewspaper was the place to start.Play with the questions. Add to them if you wish.
I knew I would have to go back to the earlyThey are just to get you thinking. Good hunting!
1900's because my great-grandfather died in 1919