What Do I Write in an Obituary?

Before you start you need to know what tothe obituary can be, it is time to start gathering
write in an obituary and what is allowed by theyour information about the deceased. To help you
newspaper. Obituaries are restricted in length andwith this task, you can find free downloadable
some newspapers don't publish them at all.forms online at ObituariesHelp.org. An obituary will
Knowing all of this before you start will makecontain the following information about the
your newspaper obituary writing go muchdeceased:
smoother.- Full name of the deceased
What is an Obituary?- Date and place of birth
An obituary is a notice that announces the death- Date and place of death
of someone with a description of the person's life- Surviving Family
and list of family members. The obituary is often- Date, time and address of funeral
written by the funeral home or mortuary, but- Date, time and address of memorial service
many people choose to write an obituary for their- Date, time and address of burial service
loved one that is published in the newspaper and- Address of cemetery or mausoleum
included in the funeral program.- Officiating Clergy
Free Obituary Listings and Paid Obituary Listings- Memorial contributions to be made in lieu of
Some newspapers limited their space to only aflowers to:
few obituaries of notable or famous people.- Photo
Sometimes, there are fees involved depending onSurviving Family
the length of the obituary. Many newspapers haveDepending on space allowed in the newspaper
an online edition in which they publish all theobituaries section, Surviving Family may include:
obituaries for free. Usually people can access- Spouse's name
these obituaries online for free, but in some cases- Children's names and the cities where they
a membership or subscription fee applies.reside
As a general rule, major national newspapers- Grandchildren and the cities where they reside
have their own staff write and publish- Parents and the cities where they reside
newsworthy obituaries for free. They charge a- Siblings and the cities where they reside
hefty fee to publish non-newsworthy obituaries- Significant friends, relatives and partners and the
and they are only online for a short time. Smaller,cities where they reside
local papers will often publish obituaries for free orAdditional Information
for a small fee. The obituaries remain online or inYou might wish to include the following information
the archives so people can access them and readif you have space and the details are appropriate,
them for years to come. A feature that is helpfulbut is not necessary:
for people doing genealogy research.- Cause of Death
Publishing an Obituary- Education
There are several newspapers that will publish a- Religious Affiliations
lengthy obituary for free, but it is best to contact- Professional Memberships
them before you start to write. Be sure you will- Participation in local or national organizations
be able to publish the entire obituary before you- Military Service
write; it will save you time and money in the end.- Occupation and employment history
The average length of an obituary is about 200- Accomplishments, achievements, awards
words but it can be as long as 450 words or as- Publications either written about or by the
few as 50 words.deceased
Contact the classified advertising department of- Hobbies or Activities
your local newspaper to publish an obituary and- Acts of humanitarianism
ask them these questions:Before you sit down to write the obituary, collect
- Will they will publish your loved one's obituary inall the information about the deceased and
the newspaper and/or online?contact your local newspaper to find out how
- How long can the obituary be?much they charge and if they have a free
- What is the cost?obituary listing online. You will find helpful Obituary
What do I write in an Obituary?Writing Tools that you can download for free at
Once you've determined who will write theObituariesHelp.org.
obituary, you or the funeral home and how long