| Marriage can sometimes be a very difficult road, | | | | not. |
| especially when you're going through tough times. | | | | Tip 3 - Speak with Your Spouse - Have a Heart |
| There are some instances when you may ask | | | | to Heart |
| yourself if it's time to just give it up. In this | | | | Although during times of turbulence in a marriage, |
| instance, it could take some pretty convincing | | | | a heart to heart conversation can easily turn into |
| things to make you push forward and want to | | | | a huge argument - this is an important tip. Your |
| salvage your marriage. So, what do you do if you | | | | marriage is nothing without communication, |
| just aren't sure whether your marriage should be | | | | anyway. Ask your spouse for their opinion and |
| saved or not? Here are 5 tips that might help you | | | | their input on whether or not your marriage |
| figure it out. | | | | should be saved and why. Their answers, their |
| Tip 1 - Ask Yourself: Do You Still Love Your | | | | demeanor and their feelings can help you make |
| Spouse? | | | | that final decision. If they are careless, you may |
| While most of us know that love isn't the only | | | | want to move on with your life. If they truly love |
| thing that matters when we're considering | | | | you and want to make it work, you may want to |
| whether the marriage should be saved or not, it is | | | | save your marriage. |
| one of the most important things. If the love is | | | | Tip 4 - What is Your Spouse Willing to Do? Find |
| there, you can make it through a lot of the | | | | Out! |
| damage that has been caused to your marriage. | | | | What sort of steps are you and your spouse |
| You need to take an honest look at this question | | | | willing to take to save your marriage? Has your |
| and answer it to the best of your ability. This | | | | spouse suggested counseling or therapy? If you |
| should have a large part in deciding whether your | | | | suggested it, would they join you? Knowing what |
| marriage should be saved. | | | | your spouse is willing to do in order to save your |
| Tip 2 - Infidelity? Can You Trust Your Spouse | | | | marriage can really help you determine whether |
| Again? | | | | it's even worth saving in the first place. |
| Many marriages are broken because of infidelity. | | | | Tip 5 - Follow Your Heart |
| In this case, one of the things you should really | | | | This sounds like cheesy advice, but in the end - |
| think about is whether or not you can trust your | | | | sometimes it's the only thing that makes sense. |
| spouse again. Has he or she apologized for the | | | | Follow your heart to know whether your |
| infidelity? Were they sincere? Do you believe | | | | marriage should be saved or not. When you've |
| them? If you honestly think that you can't trust | | | | tried everything and exhausted all means of |
| your spouse again, there is a good chance that | | | | saving your marriage, your heart may be telling |
| things will only get worse from where you're at. | | | | you that it's time to just move on. Listen very |
| Answer this question and let it be another factor | | | | carefully and you will eventually get an answer. |
| as to whether you should save your marriage or | | | | |