How Do I Write an Obituary?

Writing an obituary can be a daunting task somemorial gifts can be donated.
often funeral homes and mortuaries will write theAn example of an Obituary:
obituary for you based on the information youAriel Johnstone, of Lake Ridge, Alaska died
provide to them. Once you have collected theSaturday, September 27, 2008 in Sunnybrook
information about the deceased that you'd like toHealth Center after a short fight against heart
include in the obituary, writing it is not that difficult.disease.
The hardest aspect of obituary writing is collectingBorn in Tallwood, Minnesota, February 4, 1936, to
the dates and information about the deceased'sBaxter and Thelma Parks, Ariel was an excellent
life. Writing the obituary for a loved one can be astudent and a talented artist; she received her
therapeutic and welcomed task. This is yourBachelor of Fine Arts in 1965 from the New York
opportunity to show your loved one in the bestUniversity.
possible light and to include information about theShe went on to create art and her works were
deceased that may not be widely known.shown in art galleries and museums around the
An obituary is a celebration of the deceased andworld. Ariel took a position teaching art in 1992 at
it is an honor to be the one to write it. Now thatthe Alaska Community College where she taught
you have taken on this task, here are someuntil she retired in 2005.
ways to make the writing go a little easier.She was an avid outdoor adventurer and enjoyed
How to Write an Obituary, Sentence by Sentenceliving in Alaska's rugged environment. She chose
If you've read obituaries in the newspaper orto live out her days in Alaska because she loved
online, you'll notice that there is a pattern to them.the people, the land and the animals.
The always have certain elements included andAriel is survived by her husband, Jake, her
the information flows from specifics of the deathdaughter Shelby and her son Christopher; her
and funeral, to details about the deceased andsister Alana and her husband Jonathan and their
surviving family. You can find sample obituaries totwo children Alison and Aspen; her Aunt Betty
use as inspiration at ObituariesHelp.org.Oliver; cousins, Joshua, Gerald, and Chrystal; and
- The first sentence starts with the full name ofher Uncle Ted Parks, his wife Suzanne and cousins
the deceased, the city in which they resided, theGeorgina, Eric, and Shirley.
date they died, where they died and sometimesThe funeral service will be held at 2:00 September
cause of death.30, 2008 at Lake Ridge Funeral Home. In lieu of
- The next sentence often tells when and whereflowers, donations can be made to the National
the deceased was born, and the names ofHeart and Stroke Foundation.
parents.Writing your own Obituary
- Then the obituary can go on to giveSome people write their own obituary before
accomplishments and a chronological account ofdeath so that they include the information that is
the person's life and education.most important and relevant. If you choose to do
- A list of surviving family usually is at the end,this, you will save your loved ones time, but you
but can also be included right after the firstmight be robbing them of a chance to research
sentence announcing the death.your life and to say goodbye through the act of
- The obituary closes with the funeral, burial,writing your obituary.
wake, or memorial details and a foundation where