Caring For Pregnant Women in Our Iranian Culture

Prenatal care has an ancient history, a knowledgehome-care for a new mother up to forty days.
that hardly has been appreciated or recognized inWho does this home-care? Usually parents of the
our culture. The common practice of prenatal carenew mother get involved. This timing is believed
is impacted by the socioeconomic and culturalto be crucial for a new mother to stay on her
factors governing each family.own feet in order to care for the baby on her
We have to consider proper care for thoseown.
women who do not have family support. We canForty days is a time to heal from inside out. This
not ignore a pregnant woman, why? Remembertime period is also believed to be crucial for baby
how we see a pregnant woman in our culture.development. The postnatal care of mother is
Mothers considered being two people, one needanother traditionally implicit area. If there are no
to nurture the other all the time.parents, there is always someone who would
We Iranian do talk about viar or craving forcome forward and offer help for the mother and
certain type of food. There are many narrativesthe baby.
in relation to accommodation of the food that aI guess many embassies in Iran have the
pregnant woman craves. Lack of that provisioneveryday interaction with older Iranian generation
believes to be a sin. We believe that some fruitswho apply for visa to go and visit a pregnant
and nuts have direct impact on the baby's beauty,daughter living somewhere out of Iran. Being
intelligence, brain capacity, length, gender, and hairthere for a pregnant daughter is absolute
quality. Don't we say that apple makes the babyimportant for many Iranian families. Mothers are
cute or grapes help the new mother to havebelieved to be on the edge to the so called
breast milk?paradise. To challenge this notion, we may ask
We have this custom back home, when awhether mothers are not being bribed with the
pregnant woman walks down the street, she canpromises of heaven for the hard work they do.
many times be offered food with certain type ofPrenatal and postnatal care in our Iranian culture
spices or taste. Why do we do that? I guess notcovers every aspect of holding, caring, protecting,
every one in those old days like today couldconnecting, and attaching to the baby.
afford good food. Pregnant women were knownThe point again is not to say that everything we
as needy of extra nutrition. Elders usually believedo is the best way, however since there is
that a pregnant woman should be around good,already existing practice for prenatal and postnatal
loving, and kind people. Baby in the womb iscare, why not illuminating this perception through
taught to pick up those positive traits fromthe lens of science? Maybe this is something for
people around the mother.future research. I hope I am clear: I do not state
For sure there are some superstitious believesthat we Iranian definitely and hundred present
that influence our prenatal care. Many times ourcare for our pregnant women. Numbers of
culturally flourished attitudes create challenges andabused pregnant women by abusive husbands are
obstacles for pregnant women.too many. The cruelty against Iranian women
Today, in the Western cultures there are largethrough the history, pregnant or not, is too
scales of research that confirm most of what wecomplex.
know just by the old anecdotes. Now the point isThe number of pregnant women having been
not to boast our ego, we have enough of that;hanged, raped, or executed in the prisons of our
the point is that we should uncover the logichome country are also too many. With all the
behind what has been passed down to us by ourrespect to all those pregnant women who died
ancestors. What is well-known is that thewith their unborn children, this article tries to
psychological caring for a pregnant woman dohighlight the importance of care for our pregnant
involves many societal resources. It is believedwomen.
that a pregnant woman should not be distressedI guess my point is to not to generalize at all.
because the baby will be impacted.Why not embrace the positive and dismiss the
Another old practice in our Iranian communities isrest?
the unrecognized yet, culturally required