Our Ancestors - a Personal Journey Through Time

My late father first suggested the idea that heconclusions by the medical staff. It has
wanted to trace his family sometime in the earlysubsequently been decided that I may have very
to mid 1990s. I was `between jobs` at the time,brief seizures, a matter of seconds only at a
and felt that maybe it would be a welcometime, but enough to prevent me from driving
distraction from the soul destroying search foragain.
work; unemployment under the Tories was nearSo, here I was, likely to be permanently `signed
to 3500000 officially, and in reality many more!off` sick. What would I do? After the initial shock,
I had been told that the best place to start wasI decided to tidy up the house, and it was then
at the local library, so I found that my nearestthat I found the notebook. It was fascinating
library was in a place called New Mills, Derbyshire,reading all those scribbled note, andpoignant seeing
near to where I lived in Disley. What I found theremy father`s writing next to some of the names.
was the beginning of a long and tortuous journeyIn that instant,I decided to resurrect `The Search`!
to unearth those elusive ancestors. I did have aOne massive change had taken place since those
stoke of amazing luck. The lady in chargedays back in the mid 1990s; the internet! I was
mentioned that their library was one of only aalready quite adept atusing the internet for just
very few that had a complete set of the Latterabout everything in my life, so why not this. What
Day Saints (known popularly in the UK asI found was extraordinary. All those elusive
Mormons) microfiche records of Births, Marriagesrecords could be found at the click of a mouse;
and Deaths, or BMDs as they are knowntoday. ICensus Lists; Parish Records; even other people`s
had to make an appointment to view the records,searches and partial family trees! Over a
and make a small donation. I took a small`demented` period of 3 days, I found every
notebook. What I found were records dating backrecord dating back 5 generations. All the names,
as far as 1558 in my surname. Page after pagedates of birth, dates of marriage, dates of death.
of them! Over a period of a couple of weeks IAll the places where the relevant events took
filled my notebook.But now what? I had all theseplace. I actually had records traceable back to
names and dates, but they meant nothing to me1558, incredibly, that first entry on the Mormon
at all! I showed my father, and he highlighted themicrofiche all those years ago! Ironically, his name
ones that he recognized, so that was a start. Wewas Christopher Arnfield as well! I completed a
decided to go to the County Records Offices tofamily tree software package and produced my
search the records further. The problem wastree. I sent it by email to a UK based family tree
thatour family spanned across three counties atspecialist, and for a modest fee received a
that time, so we would need to go to threebeautifullyframed tree to show off. What
separate Records Offices! We went to Matlock,happened next is amazing! I took the framed tree
Derbyshire which is where the records forto my local pub where I had arranged to meet
Derbyshire were kept. Chester was where themy daughter to show her my efforts. Everybody
Cheshire records were kept, and luckily, thewanted to know what it was. Where did I get it
Lancashire ones that applied, could be found atfrom? Who did it for me? The interest was
Manchester. We realized after the first visit tounbelievable. Before I knew what was happening, I
Matlock and Chester, what a daunting task wewas inundated with requests to `do one for me`!
had set ourselves. We had to literally ask forIn an effort to put people off, I made out that it
every massive ledger for each record, and weinvolved too much work and time, and that I
had to make appointments each time we wantedcould not devote the time and effort that I had
to view anything. Fate stepped in, and totally outspent on my own project. That having failed, I
of the blue, I was offered and took a job. At amade a statement right off the top of my head.
stroke, our search ground to a halt, and though II would want at least 250 pounds to work all
occasionally looked at the little notebook withthose hours(!) for somebody else`s search. Guess
scribbled notes everywhere, nothing more reallywhat? Yep. You guessed. I still had a list as long
was done. My father died in 2000 without everas your arm. Surely, I thought, nobody would pay
seeing his family tree. Fast forward to Novemberme that sort of money to just compile a family
2007. I had been working as a self employedtree? Well they did, and I nowspend about a
courier for a few years, and though it involvedweek a month doing searches for other people.
long hours and massive mileages, it paid wellThis is such a rewarding experience, that I have
enough. However, that was all about to changeput together an e-book which I have now
dramatically. Over the weekend of Novemberreleased explaining exactly how to produce a 5
4-5th, I had what I thought at first was a stroke.generation family tree forvirtually no cost. Most
I awoke in the night, with my son standing overrecords are freely available if you know where to
me, asking if I was alright. Every time I tried tolook, and I know them all! Then, when you have
get up, I fell over again. I had fallen out of bed,completed your research, I have the name and
and hit my head on the dressing table as I fell,number of a little known company who specialize
and cut my eye and head open. I went to thein producing custom made family trees that will
doctors on the Monday; had tests that day atknock your friend`s socks off.
Hospital, and finished up at home without any firm