Choosing a Baby Name They Can Be Proud of

Getting ready for a new baby can be exciting,the old-fashioned and classic to
exhausting, and exhilaratingmade up and unique to downright strange.
all at once. One of the most challenging obstaclesConsider Frank Zappa, who named two of
for new parents can behis children Moon Unit and Dweezil. Madonna's
choosing a baby name. A name will identify yourchildren are named Lourdes and
child throughout their life,Rocco. Nicole Kidman and Tom cruise named
people will form opinions about your child basedtheir children Isabella Jane and
solely on their name, and theConnor Anthony. They traverse the spectrum,
name you choose will also play a role in moldingbut one thing almost all celebrity
your child's personality andchildren have in common is that their names are
behavior. Learning baby name meanings is a goodnot.
first step in narrowing yourCreating a NameMaking up a name for your
choices.baby is
Biblical and Hebrew NamesBiblical and Hebrewbecoming more popular, but it is still a choice you
names areshould consider carefully.
probably the most popular names in the UnitedThere is some evidence of job discrimination
States. Michael is consistentlywhen it comes to applicants with
one of the most popular name for boys. In 2004extremely unusual or made up names. Your child
it was second, with the othermay also be subject to frequent
four top five boy's names in order being Jacob,mispronunciation by teachers and later
Joshua, Matthew, and Ethan. Thecoworkers. Creating a new name can also
origins for all are biblical or Hebrew. Biblical namesgive your child a B sense of identity, as with
for girls also endureusing a word not normally
consistent popularity with Hannah, Abigail, andthought of as a name. Make sure you check
Samantha being in the top tendictionaries and other reference
most popular. Sarah, Rebecca, and Jessica alsosources if you make up a name, though. It could
have enduring usage.already be an obscure word that
Vintage NamesIt is sometimes possible to "date"may potentially embarrass your child.
someoneNames and PersonalityThe name you give your
by knowing when their name was popular,child can go
especially for fad names that are usedon to affect their personality, their behavior, their
for only a short period of time due to theself-worth and their
current popularity of a singer, movieidentity. Choosing a strange and unusual name
star, or fictional character. Consider Marilyn,can make your child a target for
Jacquelyn, and Shirley, allteasing and bullying. While using words for names,
examples of names that became popular foror making them up entirely,
brief periods because of publicis gaining some popularity, your child will probably
figures. Another source of old-fashioned soundingstill encounter prejudices
names is classic literature.based on their given name. Some children may
even choose to change their names
Baby name meanings are often less important inas adults or to use their initials instead of given
vintage names, since usuallynames.
the original meaning is secondary to the culturalUsing a name that is extremely common also
associations. Girl's nameshas its pitfalls. If you select an
seem to be more subject to trends and fads, asextremely popular name for your child, like
well, with boy's names changingMatthew, Brittany, Dylan, or Ashley,
less. For old fashioned names, look to yourit's probable that he or she will be one of several
grandparents or great-grandparents,in his or her class at
books, and movies from the era you would like aschool. While that may not be an issue for your
name from.child, some may feel as though
Ethnic NamesChoosing a name based on yourit is difficult to establish an independent identity.
ancestry canOthers may feel that they
be a way of showing pride in your heritage anddon't fit in if they are identified differently than
passing that on to your child.other children, such as by
Names from other cultures can also be a way oflast name or first name and an initial, if other
giving your child a less commonchildren aren't also identified
name, but without some of the negativethat way.
associations that can come with makingTips for Choosing a NameTry saying the name
one up. You can look to other languages forout loud.
different spellings of common names,Make sure it sounds good with your last name. It
too. Using a common name in a foreign languagemay take some time for you to
can result in a distinctive nameget used to it. Avoid names that can easily be
for your child, for instance the Swedish Mattiasturned into taunting nicknames.
instead of Matthew.See if the name you like rhymes with any words
Another option for a distinctive name is to uselikely to be used in an insult.
family names. Find out whatYou might not want to use Bart as a nickname if
your grandparent's or great-grandparent's middleyou choose to call your son
names are. Using a mother orBartholomew.
grandmother's maiden name can be a way ofCheck to see if the initials spell anything
providing a unique identity for yourpotentially embarrassing. If you
child while preserving family ties and heritage.are making up a name, check the dictionary first.
Unisex NamesChoosing a unisex name can be anUrban legends are rife with
easystories of children named something
compromise rather than coming up with a "boyembarrassing by unwitting parents. Remember
name" and a "girl name", but it isthat your child's name will be with them for life.
rarely necessary now that most expectingChoose something that they
parents know the gender of their childwill be proud of.
before birth. Unisex names can seem stylish andComing up with prospective names for your child
clever, but be aware that genderdoesn't need to be difficult
confusion can upset children. It's a safer choice toand fraught with arguments. Discovering the
give a unisex name likedifferent name origins of common
Mackenzie, Tracy, or Morgan to a girl. It is moremonikers can be both fun and educational. Even if
accepted for women to go byyou have already decided to
seemingly masculine names than for men to gouse a name that has been in your family for
by feminine sounding names. Plentygenerations, learning baby name
of girls with feminine names like Samantha ormeanings can still be fun.Julie Parker is a
Maxine may even go by shortenedsuccessful writer and publisher providing valuable
forms that are male names like Sam and Max.tips and advice on finding the top baby names,
Hollywood NamesHollywood often sets the styleunusual baby names, and baby name meanings.
for babyHer numerous articles offer thoughtful tips and
names, just as it does for so many other trends.valuable insight into baby naming. Check out the
The rich and famous rarely give"Top 100 Baby Names" list from the last 6 years.
their children common names. They range from